Asian woman in Chicago received racist and sexist message from a job recruiter

Ms Cheung was shocked to see an offensive phrase in the email. Picture: Facebook/Connie CheungSource:Facebook

In Trump's America, women of color getting attacked once again.  

In Chicago, a recruiter "accidentally" sent racially and sexually offensive e-mail to job hunter Connie Cheung.  

Ms. Cheung is an immigrant from China who was looking for employment in Chicago when James McMahon, a White man, sent an offensively racist email to her.  He said the e-mail is meant for his boss Brian Haugh.

I wonder how certain men in power view women of different races from their own.  While Asian women are objectified and fetishized beyond belief by nonasian men, esp. White American men.  

“Asian females have always been sexualized because of their history with Western males,” Cheung told Block Club Chicago.

He wrote about Miss Cheung using the phrase, "me love you long time."

The racially offensive phrase came from the 1987 movie, Straight Metal Jacket, in which a Vietnamese sex worker advertised herself to U.S. solders stationed there.  Rap group 2 Live Crew covered the song with that racially offensive phrase back in 1990, when the group came under fire by conservatives for their sexually suggested language.

This is disgusting to not only Asian and other women of Color, but to all women regardless of race.  Which is why we are fighting an uphill battle against sexual harassment and violence against women in the workplace.

Here's the post from U.S.A. Today regarding the incident in Chicago.
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Chicago recruiter accidentally emails Asian-American female jobseeker racist phrase

An Asian-American woman in Chicago said that, upon confirming a job interview, a vice president of a local recruiting firm sent her an email containing a commonly-known racist phrase.

"Me love you long time," reads an e-mail that Connie Cheung said was accidentally sent to her by Jim McMahon, the vice president of Chicago Search Group.

Cheung applied for a job as an office management assistant on LinkedIn and was invited for a phone interview by McMahon via email, Block Club Chicago first reported.

But a day after confirming the interview, Cheung received the offending message sent to her accidentally by McMahon. 

The email was intended for McMahon's superior, Brian Haugh, who was listed as president of the company on its website. The site since appears to have been taken down.

"I was just shocked because it's been a while since I've personally received such racial and ignorant commentary relating to my ethnicity," Cheung told USA TODAY.

The phrase "me love you long time" originates from the 1987 film "Full Metal Jacket," in which a Vietnamese prostitute approaches an American soldier. It is widely considered among Asian-Americans to be racist and sexist.

McMahon apologized to Cheung for the offensive remark.

"I called Connie to apologize directly to her," McMahon said to USA TODAY Monday. 

"This was an isolated incident that will not happen again and my sincerest apologies go out to Connie and anyone else who was offended by this statement."

"It was intended for my business partner of over a decade who was also my college roommate," he added.

"This does not excuse or justify anything. However, imagine if everyone had every inappropriate comment or poor joke that was typed, texted or spoken available for the public to see. It is a reminder for all of us that we should communicate with anyone as if everyone was listening."

Haugh also issued an apology to USA TODAY. 

"It is clearly not our intent to add or create anything but positive value in the lives of our clients and candidates," he said. "We have apologized directly to the candidate and have addressed with our team that this conduct is unacceptable."

However, he reportedly threatened a friend of Cheung's with libel in an email after he reached out on behalf of Cheung to the company to ask for an apology.

"With all due respect, I am focused on bigger problems than your friend being offended by a movie quote," an email provided by Cheung shows Haugh saying.

"You may want to Google libel laws before your crew posts things publicly. Our attorneys are on call."

Since the incident, Cheung has continued her hunt for a job. It's taken about a month thus far.

"(The incident) also made me worried because who knows if other employers also feel racially prejudiced against me and made me wonder if that's prohibiting me from getting a job," she told USA TODAY.

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Privileged White men think that they can say whatever they want and not face any kind of consequences whatsoever. They gonna learn.

My heart goes out to Miss Connie Cheung and her family.  She doesn't deserve this racist and sexist abuse from those douchebags.

Media Continues The Glaring Profiles Of "Hot Teachers" Raping Students!

Thao "Sandy" Donan faces the wrath of the public. She is a "hot teacher" caught in a tryst with a student. The student tried to blackmail the woman. She was caught by a suspicious mother.

Okay, I am getting really tired of these goddamn teacher-student sex stories.

The junk food media is trying to rationalize these predators in the classroom. I don't understand what drives these educators to this. I mean they get all the training and certification to teach individuals to achieve a decent education. Why on earth would they find love in the classroom with the people they're required to teach.

I know mentorship is a part of the teacher's position, but grooming them to have sex is another issue that is certainly getting my attention.

What pisses me off is the fact that every outlet in the junk food media seems to be picking and choosing which type of teacher gets caught in these deplorable scandals.

And what about the parents or the victim?

Usually rape of men is rare. But when a woman rapes a man, do men report that to the police?

Is that a sensitivity issue?

Another teacher was busted for having sex with her student. This one tried to extort from her in order to keep quiet. The junk food media puts a glaring picture of the teacher and how two wrongs lead to her arrest.

For the past 20 years, I was intrigued by how the junk food media covered these stories. Each of these teachers arrested are pretty attractive. I hear some get leniency for committing these acts of rape. Understand that most men find some very strong attraction to the hot teachers.

A 27-year-old teacher paid more than $28,000 — unwittingly, to the 14-year-old she was sleeping with.

Dallas Criminal Court documents describe the payments as hush money to cover up an affair that Tao "Sandy" Doan feared would cost her her job and her freedom.

She may lose both anyway. Police arrested Doan on Jan. 20 and charged her with having an improper relationship with a student and with sexual assault. The cycle of sex and blackmail came to an end after a concerned mother tried to figure out where her son was getting so much extra cash, according to an arrest warrant filed in criminal court.

Doan met the student while he attended Quintanilla Middle School, a school on the city’s west side where she taught math and social studies and coached the cross-country team, the court documents say. They began communicating via Kik, Instagram and text messages, then started having romantic conversations on the phone.

The relationship got physical in July 2015, according to the affidavit, when Doan picked the student up at his home and drove him to a park to have sex.

A search warrant affidavit obtained by Fox 4 described explicit texts and said Doan sent the student a picture of her naked breasts. They allegedly met for sex in the middle of November and on Dec. 29, 2015.

The threatening texts began a few days later, the affidavit says. Throughout the year, they came from different phone numbers and struck a demanding tone.

“(Ain’t) bulls — — watch ima start getting the pics and everything ready!” one of the blackmail texts read, according to the affidavit. “To show the cops right I (ain’t) playing.”

To make the payments, Doan withdrew money from her bank account or took out payday loans.

Even as she was making the payments, she continued having sex with the student, court documents said.

At home, the student, newly enriched, was becoming unruly, his mom told Dallas Fox-affiliate KDFW. He had already been in and out of the juvenile court system for burglary and robbery charges and things were getting worse. He used the money to buy drugs and alcohol. Sometimes he disappeared for days.

“He would probably get money and just leave the whole weekend,” she told Fox 4. “I wouldn’t hear from him. I’d be out looking for him.”

She went through his phone and found the text messages, KDFW reported. She believes the most recent payment was for $1,500 on Jan. 9.

She called the school the next day, trying to get it to put a stop to the relationship. Administrators called police.

Investigators met with Doan and interrogated her about her relationship with the student, and the year of payments, according to the documents. That’s when she provided preliminary figures about how much she had paid the student and gave them consent to search her cellphone, the affidavit says. They found evidence of both the blackmail and the sexual encounters.

The Dallas Independent School District and Doan’s attorney did not immediately respond to messages from The Washington Post seeking comment.

In 2016, the number of Texas teachers having inappropriate relationships with students climbed for the eighth year in a row, according to the Austin American-Statesman.

The increase, apparently spurred by increasing social media contact, led the Texas Education Agency to ask for nearly $400,000 more to hire investigators to look into the allegations.

“For the past decade, there has been a steady increase in the number of inappropriate educator-student relationships reported to the agency,” the agency’s budget request states. “As the caseload has increased, the number of investigators has remained the same over the past several years.”

The suspect is innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.

Road Closure In West Kardashian!

Reality hits Kimye.

Could this be the end of reality television? 

We already put one of them inside the White House. 

Although E! Network says that production will resume shortly, I won't be surprised. The main attraction is probably leaving the show and it will lead to collapse of a longtime favorite junk food media show.

E! Network may eventually announce the news that Keeping Up With The Kardashians will be cancelled after Season 12. The news isn't hardly a surprise but given how this was a dominate force in the junk food media, it's a cautionary tale of what happens when the cameras are focused on your daily life.

In October, Kim Kardashian West was robbed at gunpoint in Paris. This happened a few hours after she posted on social media her plans, her property and her lackluster of knowledge to the area. 

The robbers made off with over $10 million in property and tied the reality television agitator up and sacked her in the bathroom. 

Since the robbery, she fired her bodyguard and publicist for the incident. She had not posted on social media since October 2nd and hasn't made any public appearances. Even on her birthday. 

Her husband, rapper/producer/bitch boi Kanye West isn't doing any better. His album The Life of Pablo wasn't his masterpiece. He had a huge fallout with many in the rap community.

West has praised the controversial billionaire/racist/sexist/pussy grabbing/immature/reality television manchild who is about to your next president.

West has attacked Wiz Khalifa, Amber Rose, Jay-Z, Queen Bey, President Barack Obama, Hillary Clinton, Kid Cudi and his fans before he had a nervous breakdown. 

West postponed his concert tour while he is being treated. 

What Happened To Renee Davis?

Washington state mom was killed by the law. Renee Davis, a Native American mom of three was bucked by King County sheriff's deputies after they did a "welfare check" on her.

Once again another person of color is killed by law enforcement. The King County sheriff's department had to put two deputies on ice after they fatally shot and killed Renee Davis inside her own home.

They entered the home on a "wellness check" and found Renee was in her room. They saw her armed with a firearm. Both deputies fired at her and striking her in the head. They said they rendered help but she and her unborn child both died at the scene.

This happened at the Muckleshoot Reservation in Washington state.

The family called the law because they thought that she was suffering from a nervous breakdown.

Law enforcement claimed that Renee was suicidal.

Renee was the mother of three with one expecting. 

King County Sheriff investigates police fatal shooting of pregnant woman.

The death of this young Native American woman is heartbreaking. Given that she was a hard-working single mom, the law saw a criminal with a gun. Even though they entered her home on suspicion. They didn't even knock on the door or make a phone call. 

Renee was a receptionist at the Muckleshoot Health and Wellness Center. She also taught as at the Muckleshoot Child Development Center.

Renee grew up in a foster home with two of her biological sisters. She was an avid lover of the outdoors, her children and participated in fisheries training programs. She was a hunter.

She hunted for food and shared the kills with neighbors.

When will it stop?

Say her name: Renee Davis.

A young woman of color who was pregnant who had a legal right to defend her home. Two men who wore the badge didn't identify themselves or handled the situation properly. The family said that she was depressed.

How long will it take before the junk food media say she was a criminal?

How long will it take before they look for some evidence of her doing something illegal on social media?

How long will it take before they claim that she is an "out-of-wedlock" mother who had lived on the government?

How long will it take before the junk food media release the name of the officers involved in this?

How long will it take before we peak their social media habits?

I'm at a loss for words. It's unimaginable for a young woman to lose her life in her own home in front of her children.

Sheltered Life In West Kardashian!

The reality of being a celebrity has Kim Kardashian thinking it's not all that's it's cracked up to be.

It's going to be a quiet birthday for the most talked about reality star in the world. Kim Kardashian-West turns 36 year old today. The celebrity agitator hasn't been on social media since October 2. The Paris robbery really rattled her and it's sure seems like she's heading for a low-key lifestyle.

All her public appearances were cancelled indefinitely.

This bit of drama wasn't reality television. This was actually reality. Kim and her family were appearing at Fashion Week in Paris. Kim and her family were having a good time in Paris and decided to stay at the Hotel de Pourtales. 

While her bodyguard Pascal Duvier was with Kourtney and Kendall, Kim went to bed early.

About 2am, five men on bicycles grabbed a man who worked at the hotel. The man was held at gunpoint and ordered to unlocked the security doors. As he was hit in the head and handcuffed, they go to the room where Kim was staying at.

They forced their way into the room and grabbed Kim out of her bed. They held a gun to her head.

They tied Kim up and she begged them not to kill her. They didn't kill her, they gagged her and thrown her into the bathroom. They shut the door and rummaged through her stuff.

They managed to steal her personal phones, her jewelry all totalling over $10 million. 

They were caught on camera escaping into the darkness. 

Around that time, her husband, rapper/producer Kanye West was performing in New York. He abruptly stopped the show and left for France. After the incident, the family went back to New York under heavy security. Kim decided to skip the Las Vegas B-Day show and Kanye for the time being is still continuing his concert tours. 

CBS news program 60 Minutes decides to air the Kim Kardashian interview in which she openly said that she can handle the pressure of being in the limelight.

Were the thieves enticed by the social media from Kim?

Okay, I am going to be blunt about the social media. I would never post anything valuable online.

I would never let people know that I am leaving for vacation on social media. I would never post any pictures online while I'm gone out of town. 

I would never post pictures of my relationships online.

I am pretty jealous of people who post on social media. I don't want to waste my time looking at that stuff. I have enough issues to worry about.

Here's her guest appearance on Last Man Standing in which Mandy (played by Molly Ephraim) meets her idol at a bookstore

Bonus feature: Kim's appearance on 2 Broke Girls. When Max (played by Kat Dennings) and Caroline (played by Beth Behrs) were opening up their cupcake store, Kim makes a purchase.

Florida Man Loses His Life After Taking Out A Honey Trap!

Online dating dangerous. A man loses his life to a "honey trap". The 18 year old woman and her thug posse broke into Adam Hilarie's home and shot him at point blank range killing him. He leaves behind a daughter.

Well here we go again.

Know that online dating does carry risks. Your date could be setting you up. Know the risk of robbery, rape, sexually transmitted infections, HIV and prostitution happen online. You can be a victim or a suspect of these issues.

A central Florida man lost his life to the social media. He met a woman online and invited her to his home. After she scoped the place out, she ordered a hit on him. Now she and her crew are going to find out how the iron college doesn't take kind to this type of shit.

A woman is going up the creek along with her boyfriend and his associates. They are innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.

If this young woman had an opportunity to meet Jennifer Mee, the hiccup girl (aka honey trap of St. Petersburg), I bet you money, Mee would have told her to stay away from that guy. He's nothing but trouble.

Back in August, Adam Hilarie, a father of a young daughter met a woman named Hailey Bustos on Pof.com (Plenty of Fish), a Match.com company. The 18 year old woman went on a few dates with Adam and they hit it off.

They head back to his place. Kick it for the night. He drops her off at home.

When she got home, she texted her boyfriend and his friends letting them know that there's some "good shit" over this trick's house.

Okay, they meet up again! "I had a good time and would like to see you again."

Sure. Come thru....

Honey trap Hailey Bustos (bottom left) is facing high murder. 

She saw him the next night and when she knocked on the door, Adam answered the door. She came in with her boyfriend and his crew to jack this man up.

They were armed and they ordered him to surrender his clothes, Xbox, TVs, iPhone and wallet.

As he was pleading with the robbers, one of them shot him at point blank range in the head.

They quickly leave the home and took off in a vehicle. They would post on social media they're successful in a jack move. It didn't take long before the law would figure out the woman through cameras at a bowling alley they've attended.

Now Busto, Andre Warner, 26 years old, Gary Gary 31 years old, and Joshua Ellington 26 years old face some serious charges. They were each charged with 1st Degree Murder and robbery with intention to harm. These charges in Florida will put them either in the iron college for LIFE or the DEATH card for each.

Intimidating photos of Bustos drive men to swipe to the right.

The person who fired the firearm will likely get the most harshest charges. But since all four of them were involved, equally in Florida they all could face the same fate.

I mean I am going to warn all singles! Don't believe the hype!

You can't find love online. No, let me stop. You can find love. But it's best to be very cautious about those online. Even though it may be fun and it gets you an opportunity to meet interesting people, the negatives outweigh the positives. It's dangerous and could led to more heartbreak. So I am just saying, use your head.

Know who you're dealing with with before you jump into romance or marriage.

I'm going to have patience and a whole lot of mistrust towards people nowadays.

People can't keep their word when they deliver on their promises. That goes for online dating.

Live With Kelly And Morris!

Kelly Ripa is likely to pick Morris Chestnut to replace Michael Strahan. Chestnut was featured in The Best Man, Boyz in the Hood and Fox's Rosewood.

The drama over at Live! may be coming to an end. Kelly Ripa has announced her new host. The news will be dropped soon and people are anticipating on the new host being a famous face.

The possible host is someone familiar with television and movies.

It seems like actor Morris Chestnut is highly favored to be the replacement for Michael Strahan, the ex-NFL star/actor/game show host who abruptly left the show to take on full time duties at GMA.

This was one of the biggest shocks in the junk food media. It sparked a bitter feud between Ripa and Strahan. The two were distant from one another and refuse to acknowledge each other.

Kelly Ripa was struggling to find a decent host.

Chestnut is probably the right choice. Given that Chestnut is 'eye candy" for women and he has notable history appealing with viewers, it's good choice.

Chestnut is on the Fox police drama Rosewood. It's greenlighted for a second season and it will air again on Thursday to replace Bones after it finishes up its final season.

Other possibilities include: Neil Patrick Harris. He would be a suitable choice. He's a famous actor who can entertain and make the show more lively. He's is openly gay and could bring rational views to the show. The actor and business mogul is best friends with Ripa. Neil Patrick Harris and Kelly Ripa were guests of actress Rachael Harris's wedding.

Anderson Cooper, the CNN host and CBS 60 Minutes commentator. With a busy schedule and a failed talk show, it's highly unlikely for him to be the choice. Cooper will moderate the second debate between Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump.

Fred Savage and Rob Lowe. Both have appeared on the critically acclaimed sitcom The Grinder. The series was cancelled in the latest round of Fox downsizing its comedy blocks. Savage is a famous child actor now turned famous director and producer. He is working on other sitcoms and directing episodes of New Girl, black-ish, The Goldbergs and Girl Meets World starring his brother Ben Savage.

Lowe, on the other hand was probably a bad choice. Given that he's turned conservative, he will clash with Kelly Ripa on issues like LGBT and Hillary Clinton. Lowe who is critical of Barack Obama would say something that would make the show too political. Lowe is also working on a television series.

We will await the announcement. The new season of Live! begins on Monday.

Steve Harvey Flubs Miss Universe Winner!

Think like a man....

Well I am assuring Steve Harvey got some flack for the flub. The AP reports that the entertainer messed up in announcing the winner of Miss Universe Pageant.

The Colombian contestant was already wearing this year's Miss Universe crown when host Steve Harvey returned to announce on live television that he had mistakenly read from a cue card, and that the contestant from the Philippines was actually this year's winner.

In the following moments, the crown was removed and placed on the head of a mystified Pia Alonzo Wurtzbach of the Philippines, other contestants rushed to console Ariadna Gutierrez Arevalo of Colombia and a sheepish Harvey felt compelled to apologize on Twitter and to reporters assembled backstage.

"I feel horrible for this young woman," he said.

Harvey said it was his mistake and that he would take responsibility for not correctly reading the card, which said that Wurtzbach was this year's winner and Colombia was actually the first runner-up.

He held up the card for Fox network cameras to see up close. Talking with reporters afterward, Harvey and an executive for pageant owner WME-IMG called it human error.

"Nobody feels worse about this than me," he said.

Wurtzbach appeared stunned as she walked to the front of the stage alongside the crown-wearing Gutierrez before last year's Miss Universe from Colombia removed the crown and placed it on Wurtzbach's head.

Wurtzbach later said she felt conflicting emotions as the mistake happened: joy when she was told she had indeed won, concern for Gutierrez and confusion at the whole situation.

Wurtzbach said she tried to approach Gutierrez onstage afterward, but the Colombian was crying and surrounded by a crowd of women. She said she realized it was "probably bad timing."

"I did not take the crown from her," Wurtzbach told reporters after the pageant concluded, saying she wished the contestant from Colombia well and hoped the Latin American community understands that "none of this was my fault."

"None of this was done on purpose. It was an honest mistake," she said, apologizing on behalf of the organization she now represents. She said Harvey told her afterward that she "should just enjoy the moment."

Crowning Ariadna Gutierrez Arevalo was a mistake.

Harvey also apologized on Twitter, but at first misspelled the home countries of both contestants before also fixing that. "I'd like to apologize wholeheartedly to Miss Colombia & Miss Philippines for my huge mistake," he wrote. "I feel terrible."

Within seconds of Gutierrez being crowned, Colombian President Juan Manuel Santos took to Twitter to commemorate what appeared to be an unprecedented back-to-back Miss Universe win for the South American nation.

"Colombians! The most beautiful in the world," wrote Santos. "Miss Universe 2016!!!! What pride!"

But seconds later, Santos had to reverse himself.

"For us you'll always be our Miss Universe," he wrote in a message to Gutierrez. "We feel very proud."

Donald Trump, who used to own the rights to Miss Universe, tweeted on Monday that "this never would have happened" under his watch. He softened his tone later that morning in an interview on NBC's Today Show, calling Harvey a "great guy" who handled it well. Trump said if he were still in charge of the show, he would make the women share the title.

"I think I'd make them a co-winner. That'd be very cool," he said.

He added: "Things happen. It's live television," he said.

Harvey, who was hosting the contest for the first time, said he reread the card and noticed it said "first runner-up" next to the Colombia contestant's name before he asked producers if he had made a mistake.

An executive with pageant owner WME-IMG, Mark Shapiro, said Harvey caught the mistake and corrected it on his own, saying he wanted to make a wrong into a right.

"It was humiliating for the women. It was humiliating for him," he told reporters after the pageant.

As all this was unfolding, a car drove up onto a sidewalk and struck dozens of people just outside the Planet Hollywood hotel-casino where the pageant was taking place. The Las Vegas Strip was soon jammed with ambulances and fire trucks, and authorities said at least 30 people were taken to a hospital to be treated for injuries and one person was killed.

Even before Sunday night's oops moment, the pageant was involved in another controversy when a backlash against Trump led Univision to pull out of the broadcast and the businessman to sell it in September.

Pia Wurtzbach crowned the winner of Miss Universe after a major flub by comedian Steve Harvey.

NBCUniversal and Trump co-owned the Miss Universe Organization until earlier this year. The real-estate developer offended Hispanics in June when he made anti-immigrant remarks in announcing his Republican presidential run.

That led Spanish-language network Univision to pull out of the broadcast for what would have been the first of five years airing the pageants, and NBC to cut business ties with Trump.

The former star of the "Celebrity Apprentice" reality show sued both companies, settling with NBC in September, which included buying the network's stake in the pageants.

That same month, Trump sold the organization that includes the Miss Universe, Miss USA and Miss Teen USA pageants to entertainment company WME-IMG.

Philippines presidential spokesman Edwin Lacierda didn't address the debate over the win but said, "in bagging this victory, Ms. Wurtzbach not only serves as a tremendous source of pride for our people, but also holds up the banner of our women and of our country-as a true representative of what the Filipina can achieve."

Harvey  was so embarrassed over this. He went to social media to apologize to the runner-up and winner.

The competition started with women representing 80 countries between the ages of 19 and 27. For the first time, viewers at home weighed in, with their votes being tallied in addition to four in-person celebrity judges.

It's the third time a contestant from the Philippines has won the title.

The pageant's contestant from the United States, Olivia Jordan, was named second runner-up.

The entertainer hosted the Miss Universe Pageant on Fox last night.

He incorrectly announced the winner of Miss Universe. Harvey erroneously announced Miss Colombia Ariadna Gutiérrez as the winner. However, after Gutiérrez crowning, Harvey stated that he read the results incorrectly and that Wurtzbach was the actual Miss Universe 2015.

Miss Universe 2014 Paulina Vega then handed Gutiérrez's crown over to Wurtzbach.

Pia Wurtzbach represented the Philippines in the Miss Universe 2015 held on December 20, 2015 in Las Vegas, Nevada, United States.

Broderick Stephen "Steve" Harvey is an American comedian, television host, radio personality, actor, and author. He hosts The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Steve Harvey (the talk show), and Family Feud. He is the author of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, which was published in March 2009, and the book Straight Talk, No Chaser: How to Find and Keep a Man.

Harvey previously hosted Showtime at the Apollo, starred in The Steve Harvey Show, and was featured in The Original Kings of Comedy. He is a three-time Daytime Emmy Award winner, and an 11-time NAACP Image Award winner in various categories.

A Little Songbird For John Legend And Chrissy Teigen!

They're gonna be parents.

It was confirmed that Oscar award winning R&B singer and his model/talk show host wife are going to be parents.

The R&B singer met his wife on the set of a music video. They hit it off and became romantic. They got married in Italy. John Legend (born John Stephens) and Chrissy were married in 2013.

John Legend and Chrissy Teigen are expecting their first child. A great year for both celebrities.

John and Common both won an Oscar for the single "Glory" from the soundtrack Selma.

Chrissy reunited with her mentor Tyra Banks to host the ABC syndicated talk show FABLife.

The couple announced the news on social media and then the celebrity agitators started swarming.

"John and I are so happy to announce that we are pregnant :) As many of you know, we've been trying to have a baby for a while now. It hasn't been easy, but we kept trying because we can't wait to bring our first child into the world and grow our family," she wrote on social media. "We're so excited that it's finally happening. Thank you for all your love and well wishes. I look forward to all the belly touching! Xx"

The most beautiful couple are expecting a baby.

A source tells E! News, "Chrissy and John are so happy. It's not been the easiest for Chrissy, but they knew when the right time came they would be pregnant."

The insider adds, "Chrissy is feeling great and enjoying every second being pregnant. She is taking good care of her body and making sure her and their baby are healthy and feeling good. John has been a huge support for Chrissy during this time. He could not be more excited until their baby comes into this world."

World News Today wishes John Legend and Chrissy Teigen the best. Congratulations on them becoming a parents.

Ohio Woman Puts Her Own Kids Down!

Mother of the year. Brittany Pilkington is facing a capital case for the death of her three children. The defense claims mental issues and spousal abuse as the reason.

The residents of the city of Bellefontaine, Ohio are shocked. To hear that a woman killed three of her children because according to the junk food media, she was jealous of her husband's close relationship to them, is beyond belief.

This woman is being held on a $1 million get out of jail free card. She is innocent until proven guilty.

Brittany Pilkington, 23, is charged with three counts of capital murder. These charges could land her in the gas house.

Right now, her attorneys are going to try to say that "she flipped". The defense is going to line up the fact that she has mental issues and the intelligence of a pre-teen. I am peeping out the social media and she's kind of loony.

Many in the law have sensed that the danger was there. Logan County Family Services have done routine checks on Pilkington and her kids. She was the mother of four children. When her first child died because of unknown circumstances, the law ordered mandatory checks on the family.

In July 2014, she lost her 3-month-old son, Niall. In April of this year, her 4-year-old son, Gavin, would die. Authorities were still trying to determine the cause of Niall and Gavin’s death at the time of Noah’s passing.

Gavin and Niall died because of smothering.

So it was totally understandable that police would like to have a talk with Brittany. After just a few hours of questions, Brittany admitted she had killed her sons by placing blankets over their faces and suffocating them.

Her motive? According to Brittany, she killed the boys because her husband was giving them more attention than he was their 3-year-old daughter, Hailey.

“In her mind she was protecting her daughter from being not as loved as the boys were by their father,” said Logan County prosecutor William Goslee.

Noah and Hailey had only been back with the couple for a month, having been in the custody of Logan County Children’s Services shortly after the death of Gavin.

“Why would you give them back after a little boy just died and when you’re in the middle of an investigation?” asked Brittany’s uncle. The answer to that is the fact that a coroner had just concluded Gavin’s and Niall’s deaths weren’t suspicious.

Brittany Pilkington was arrested and charged with three counts of murder and is being held in the Logan County jail. Her daughter is back in the custody of Logan County Children’s Services.

According to the Colubus Dispatch, Brittany married her husband in March 2010 when she was 18 and he was 38. Her husband has four spare children from previous marriages who also do not live with him.

World News Today send our condolences to the family of Gavin, Noah, and Niall.

Oh, Brother..... Hulk Hogan Got Fired Out The Cannon!

Hulk Hogan is scrubbed from the WWE.

The Hulkster was fired out the cannon this month. Something happened over the past few weeks got the World Wresting Entertainment, Inc pissed.

The veteran an all-American wrestling icon was caught on tape making an alleged racist rant.

The WWE wiped him out of existence.

I knew that he was under fire for allegedly having an affairs with numerous women. But this controversy has touched a nerve with Vince and Linda McMahon.

This wasn't the last time Hulk Hogan got into trouble where he was bounced from WWE.

The WWE may have finally put the cannon in position and fired him right out the arena.

Rappers call @HulkHogan the N-word so he asks, why can't I use it? Audio: http://t.co/3bEV7lZ4LJ pic.twitter.com/fA3p9h4ptg

— Jason McIntyre (@jasonrmcintyre) July 24, 2015

An audio clip has surfaced online in which Hogan repeatedly uses NIGGER during an interview discussing his early career and the use of the word on screen, although it appears this is from around 2012 and not the incident leading to the controversy.



WWE dissociated themselves from Hogan, removing all references to Hogan from their website, including his listing as a judge for Tough Enough and his merchandise from WWE Shop.

Hogan quickly took to Twitter express sadness and hope. He wished his fans well.

In the storm I release control,God and his Universe will sail me where he wants me to be,one love. HH

— Hulk Hogan (@HulkHogan) July 24, 2015

Hogan by government name Terry Bollea is a professional wrestler, celebrity agitator, business and media mogul. He resides in Clearwater, FL.

Hogan enjoyed mainstream popularity in the 1980s and 1990s as the all-American character Hulk Hogan in the World Wrestling Federation (WWF, now WWE), and as "Hollywood" Hulk Hogan, the villainous nWo leader, in World Championship Wrestling (WCW). A regular pay-per-view headliner in both organizations, Hogan closed the respective premier annual events of the WWF and WCW, WrestleMania and Starrcade, on multiple occasions. He was inducted into the WWE Hall of Fame in 2005. He was signed with Total Nonstop Action Wrestling (TNA) from 2009 until 2013, where he was the on-screen General Manager.

Vince McMahon told Hogan to bounce.

IGN described Hogan as "the most recognized wrestling star worldwide and the most popular wrestler of the '80s".

Hulk Hogan is a 12-time world champion being a six-time WWF/E (World Heavyweight) Champion and six-time WCW World Heavyweight Champion. He is the third longest combined reigning WWF Champion of all time (after Bruno Sammartino, and Bob Backlund), the longest-reigning champion of the 1980s, and holds two of the ten longest title runs in WWF/E history, having held the title for 1,474 days from 1984–1988 (the fourth longest reign of all time) and 364 days from 1989 to 1990 (the 9th longest reign of all time). He is also the longest-reigning WCW World Heavyweight Champion of all time, with a 469-day reign from 1994–1995. Hogan won the Royal Rumble in 1990 and 1991, making him the first man to win two consecutive Royal Rumbles.

CO Poisoning Kills Another Ohio Victim!

The law is trying to figure out how a woman died in a carbon monoxide poisoning.

A woman who lived in Vandalia, Ohio died over the weekend. According to the law, she was a victim of carbon monoxide poisoning. Of course, this ends the month of death. Three young girls died in this situation earlier this year. The carbon monoxide gas this odorless, tasteless and colorless and it kills. It doesn't discriminate on who it kills.

We here at Journal de la Reyna send our condolences to the family of Patricia Bolden.

Many don't even know it. But the symptoms of illness, dizziness, nausea and finally the permanent sleep come forth when you're exposed to carbon monoxide.

Many in the emergency agencies always recommend a CO2 Alarms. The CO2 alarms can detect a odor. It's also recommended that you change the batteries of CO2 alarms and smoke detectors whenever you flip the hours during Daylight Saving Time.

Apparently the woman's estranged husband found her body after hours of failed contact.

Bryant Bolden, the husband is grieving over this situation. He and Patricia were separated and were in the possibility of reconciling.

The Brookfield Apartments where Patrica lived are within a few blocks of the Vandalia City Courthouse and police station.

The local gas company determined that it was a furnace. The Montgomery County Bag 'Em haven't concluded its investigation. They have not ruled out foul play in this tragedy.

Somehow, I am getting that feeling like this isn't just a simple accident. More details on this soon.

Social Media And Dating: A Love Story!

I am guessing I'm going to be single for a while. I am not upset about it. I am actually happy. I am happy that a great burden was lifted from me. I had to get rid of the problems that plagued me for the last few months.

I have grown more resentful towards people. I am going to be really honest with you. I am not as easy going as I used to be. I am reclusive and remote. I don't often like big groups and I am putting on an act of "being nice" when dealing with people I seldom tolerate.

I figured that my worse fears came true.

My biggest fear in life is rejection and failure. Today, I feel like I've been a failure. I am a failure in relationships. Not because I'm not the right guy. But I figured that I am the "NICE GUY". The doormat. The sap. The sucker. The guy who doesn't ask for much but end up with women who too much of a burden.

I am the guy who going to be single for the rest of my days.

I've dated Black and White women for most of my life. Maybe it's me.... I don't know!

I want more than just being friends.

So why do I continue getting the ones who end up being total disasters?

When I posted Valentine's Day: An Honest Opinion, I mentioned that I was dating a woman who lied about being pregnant. I was devastated by the lies and deception. I gave up a lot to settle down. I seriously felt robbed of my cool relaxed and patient nature.

It was hard but I had to kick her to the curb. I can't trust a person who would deceive me. Especially when it comes to children.

Her name was Jessica. And she managed to hurt me by hiding her pregnancy and lying. I've forgiven her but I don't want nothing to do with her.

You hear the other say they're not like other ones you've dated. I just pretend to listen and act like I care. The moment that ask me, "do me a favor?"

I promise that I will run for the door.

She will realize that when the next person comes into her life will take advantage of her just like she done to me. She will realize that the man she loves is a cheater and user. Something she claim she never was.

A few days later, I met a woman on another social media website for dating. The website is called POF.com. The website is second to OkCupid in the match making industry.

I was cautious about this. The first response from this woman was "come over and party". I was a bit reluctant to head over, but I did. It was early in the morning and I went over. This woman introduced herself as Jennifer, but preferred to be called Jen.

Jen was a 39 year old woman who worked at a specialty restaurant that serves platters such as Bourbon chicken. I was a frequent regular at the location in the city. It would move from its location to be closer to the university. She openly boasted that she was a "spoiled" woman and wanted her man to do everything without question. No problem there. I was willing to do anything for her if I was to get something in return.

So a few hours of talking, we would embrace. Then we ha sex. Yeah, I normally wouldn't have sex with a woman on the first date, but I wanted to repel the memory of Jessica.

But what comes a shocker to me, she admits to me that she's addicted to crack cocaine.

As usual, I normally try to accept people for who they are. I told her that "as long as you don't get me involved in this, I have no problems with you!"

That was a big mistake.

Dating a person who is addicted to drugs can prove to be more of a burden than a woman lying about not being pregnant.

For the next five weeks, I would often come by and spend the night with her. She would ask for money just to do an errand run. I should have known better. She was trying to get dope. She promised that she got me back. According to her, the word was good.

Well I gave her money. And with more money and on top of that alcohol. I was feeding her addiction.

I come to find out that she's relapse after numerous failures in her life. She was the mother of three. Her oldest was given up for adoption and she had fears that her two younger children would be taken away if the law found out she was addicted to drugs. She would tell me that she's trying to quit. And she was hoping to quit so she can get her life back together.

I accepted that. I told her that I hope the best for her and pray that she can overcome her addiction to crack.

But that turned out to be wrong. In the weeks ahead, she would involuntarily get involve with friends, family members and dope boys. Each of these people were involved in drugs or sold drugs.

I was starting to be concerned about her. One day she frantically called saying that a family member stole her vehicle. That caused her to relapse even further into the crack addiction.

A few days without her truck led her to having a nervous breakdown. She would drink heavily, smoke 3 packs of cigarettes a day and become more combative.

See being a crack addict makes you restless, combative, paranoid, and reckless.

I found her truck near my neighborhood. Her family member is a drug addict and prostitute. She would steal vehicles and head over to her pimp or a dope boy for shelter.

A few nights of driving her truck after it was stolen was short lived. She would be busted by the law for being caught leaving a known dope spot. She was arrested that night and spend a few nights in the county lock up. The vehicle was impounded.

She would temporarily lose her job. She was depressed and she was saying that it was over. She would end the crack addiction. Wrong.

It caused her to go even further down the hole. She would lie to get a hit. I would take her to work.

I was called one morning and she asked if she could see me. I agreed. She said that she's getting ready to meet me. But asked her why! She knew that I don't want to be associated with dope boys.

She would make up some excuse saying that it's not going to be long. You won't be caught. I'm just going to do this only one time.

I said no. I am not going to drive you to get dope. She goes combative and threatens to end all ties with me. So we argue for a hour and she said leave her alone.

I should have just done that. I could just erase all my troubles and move forward.

But I felt that I was "owed" for all the things rendered during the time I've spent with her. So I tried to reconcile. At first, I thought everything was cool. Alas, it was a bust.

A few days of reconciliation didn't last long. I was called over to her house. She said that she was lonely. So I decide to head over in the dense fog to her home. I go to her home and see her in a daze.

She was drinking Fireball whiskey and all doped up. She had marijuana, some powerful dope and that strong whiskey. The ingredients for belligerent nutcase.

She was extremely paranoid and volatile. She even threaten me with a bat. She told me to get out the house and said that she was "scared" of me.

Again, I never threaten her. I never hit her. I never did anything wrong to her. After she feel asleep, I left.

Before I've left, I wished her well. A few days later, she would text me.

"I just hope you would never do anything that may hurt me or my children," Jennifer said.

I respond back:

"In the beginning, I was not going to respond. After you went off on me, I rather just leave and never look back. Your children are cool. I never would harm children or animals. I didn't do anything wrong to yo. I never stole property or destroyed things. "

Jennifer needs psychological help. She can't find happiness (at least from me) if you're still binging on alcohol and dope.

If there was a God, he wouldn't never put me into these peoples lives.

Someone told me that I had a heart. I was told that I have a big heart but that seems to be my passive beliefs in helping others.

I mean I am going to warn all singles! Don't believe the hype!

You can't find love online. No, let me stop. You can find love. But it's best to be very cautious about those online. Even though it may be fun and it gets you an opportunity to meet interesting people, the negatives outweigh the positives. It's dangerous and could led to more heartbreak. So I am just saying, use your head.

Know who you're dealing with with before you jump into romance or marriage.

I'm going to have patience and a whole lot of mistrust towards people nowadays.

People can't keep their word when they deliver on their promises. That goes for online dating.

I am struggling for success. I will hopefully find love someday. I hope the right person will be there. And of course, the race of the woman isn't a problem for me. I have no bias against women of color, transgender women, bisexual or independent women. If you're interesting, let's talk and move things forward.

I am not looking for much. I am looking for women who have independent minds. I don't have problem dating women with children. I don't have no problem traveling to meet a woman (as long as she has a means of transportation) to connect with me.

Well I do have a bias.

I don't like women who have no jobs, no money and no car. Also I will not date women who are pregnant and its not my child. I will not date anyone who is a drug abuser. I will never date tomboys, spoiled brats, and divas. Lastly, I will never date a woman who is obsessive phone caller.

Why do I end up dating these failures?



I don't have no problems dating any woman of color or nationality. Race shouldn't be a matter at least with me!

Not saying that all women are bad. I am just saying that the ones who are often looking for the "good guys" are the ones who got more issues than me.

These two were terrible. I wish them well on finding the right guy. Believe me, the next guy would probably head for the hills once he gets to know them.

Comedy Central's Key & Peele do a comedy sketch with comedian Natasha Leggaro. They are talking about White women dating and having sex with Black men.

Valentine's Day: An Honest Opinion!

Why Valentine's Day is a drag for me.

Another Valentine's Day and I'm dreading it yet again. I am in a bit of sadness. I am not shedding tears and throwing things around. I am pretty much annoyed and volatile. I am just bottled up and volcanic. I am just waiting to explode. But I have to realize that the volcano could be capped. The best way to cap it is to express it in words.

One thing about relationships that everyone knows: It's extremely complicated.

See I am the type that bottles up my feelings and emotions. I was a bit of a tear jerker when I was younger. My dad and mom would often make me feel like I am a failure. I used to feel like my parents weren't supportive of me. 

To this day, I am extremely reclusive and distant. 

I don't hardly speak to my parents, my sister and other family members.

I often worked a lot and went out every Friday and Saturday. I often would meet women at the bar, the club, the social media and the job. Among each time, I've met them, I've learned to like them and trust them. I have experience heartbreak one too many times. Sometimes I feel like it's my fault for what happens.

I am the dreaded nice guy. I feel like I'm a doormat. They'll walk over me. I was never like this. I would often be hardline and self confidant.

I recently was doing the online dating thing. I met four women during this experience. Each of them were terrible. I gave this online dating thing another opportunity. The one that I felt was compatible to me managed to hurt me the most. I thought this one could be the relationship I've long asked for.

But alas, it's not.

I will use her first name and first letter of her name in this. The person is real and the events are told through my perspective. If this applies to you then it's consequential. 

Okay, this woman I met on Badoo was named Jessica V.  At the time, I was not looking for relationships. I was working two jobs and I was interested in purchasing a vehicle and looking for a house.

I met her in late July.

I met her at a discount clothing store. She asked if I would meet her at a local restaurant. I kindly agreed to it. So I met her and her two "friends". After eating she would ask if I was interested in bowling. Of course, I said. I wasn't doing much. I was upset with a woman that I was associated with after she stood me up. I figured that what's the harm?

After bowling we parted ways. She would later ask if I was going to spent the night with her. At first, I was extremely cautious about this. I was not ready to have sex with her without getting to know her.

I told her that I was not interested. I had to work in the morning. We'll I had second thoughts. Sure, I'll come through. So Jessica V. lived in the city of Carlisle, Ohio. A city that was 20 miles from where I lived. I had to travel some pretty isolated roads to get to her apartment complex. 

I came over and met her with the biggest smile on my face. I would often blush if I am really interested in the woman.

I would get to know her and her past. She recently got out of a relationship with a man. She claimed that he cheated on her with another woman and she had to "cut him loose". She said that she's not into a one night stand on the first date. That brought much relief to me. So we cuddled until the morning. 

So we had a few dates and done frequent texting and calls. I am not a big phone person, but I didn't mind her calling. I often would feel relaxed when I called her. I told her the two basic things I want if I was in a relationship with her.

I said that as long as that child is mine and you don't bring it home, then we're cool. The "don't bring it home" reference is to a sexually transmitted infection.

I didn't care what she done. I wasn't ready for a relationship at the time. She would often ask me to do favors for her. She was experience money woes. I would loan her money. I would offer her gifts. I gave her roses, twice. 

All the while, she was being deceiving. She apparently wasn't over her boyfriend. She would have sex with him.

Well one day, she would text me an urgent message. I asked her what the issue was. She said that she wanted to tell me in person. So I would head over to her apartment. We kissed and embraced for a moment. She would play this guessing game on what the urgency was. 

So I would look at the table and notice pamphlets for pregnancy. So I asked, are you pregnant?

She calmed said yes.

I was shocked. I was upset. I was not interested in dating women who were pregnant. I didn't want to raise another man's child and be suckered into child support. After a few minutes of arguing, I decided that I am not going to say anything else. I would leave and not look back. 

I am not a doormat.

She would frantically call and tell me that she didn't want to lose me. She said that she "cared" for me. I didn't want to believe that. I wanted to move forward. I was sad. I was almost driven to tears.

Here I thought this woman was single and not pregnant. I asked her multiple times are you pregnant during our first two weeks of knowing each other.

Jessica V. lied. And this lying became a habitual thing. As I am a caring person, I gave her three options. I said that you are responsible for this decision. I can't stop you from having a child. But I will not be in your life if you do. She thought about abortion. I told her that I wasn't supportive of abortion. I dealt with this stuff back when I dated a woman from Troy. She said that she would do it just to keep me as her friend. I told her that I don't agree with it, but I can't stop her. 

We embraced and parted ways. 

In October we would have our first sexual encounter. She abruptly left. She was upset that she went against her word about having one night stands. I told her that I deeply care about her. I didn't want to lose her. I was just going through a lot of things and I didn't want to be tied down.

Now during this time, I lost my job at the racino. I felt that I wasn't going to be the man she wanted to be with. I told her that my biggest fears are failure and rejection (heartbreak). I told her that I will do all I can to achieve my goals. I told her for the time being, I didn't want to settle down. 

Well it coming around the time of the holidays. I asked that if she was to do something for me, I asked her to meet my parents. That was the only thing I've asked for her. I thought that would be the perfect time to acknowledge her as a girlfriend.

Well as the holidays came, she didn't do it. She had an excuse for everything. She worked. She wanted to be around her family. She wasn't ready yet. Okay. Cool. I understand. Unbeknownst to me, she was dating a guy she met a Walmart. She had the opportunity to spend time with him and his family but not me.

Around early January, the calls and texts stopped. I was wondering what was going on. I texted and called. I got voice mail and unanswered texts. So I thought that I done something wrong. I immediately decided to mingle. I had an opportunity to hook up with a woman that I worked with a the racino that I had mutual feelings for. I blew that one because I told her that I was dating someone else. I text a long message to Jessica V.

Jessica. Why are you ignoring me? You know I am truly for you. I am amazed and sadden. I knew this would happen. I became a doormat and you walked over me. I don't ask for much. All I ask for is time and trust. Because I didn't want to rush into things, you shut me down. I said that I've been hurt too many times being a "nice guy". I looked out for you countless times. And what do I get for it? Nothing. I love you Jessica. It's just a matter to how I address it without feelings of failure and rejection. I will not shed tears. But I will be a lot emptier without you.

A few days later, Jessica V. would call. She told me that she was in the hospital. I asked her why?

She wouldn't tell me and I respected that. All of sudden, I tried to reach her through the social networks. I couldn't reach her through Facebook, because she blocked me.

I asked numerous times why Jessica V. was blowing me off? She comes up with I'm busy and I just hanging out with friends. 

So I asked her to meet me somewhere so can talk face to face. She blew me off. 

So I went to texting again. 

This is going to be a long text. I am texting you one more time. I haven't bothered calling because you ain't answering. I can't reach you through Facebook because you blocked me. I told you how I felt about you and I laid my cards on the table. I got the cold shoulder. You ignored every opportunity. I am not going to bother you if you ain't responding. I understand that you been in the hospital, but based on broken promises, I don't believe anything you say to me. I am still not convinced. Maybe I am overracting but based on promises I don't have faith in you. So I extend this opportunity to work out these things. Cause I am tired of being used and given excuses. I would never have spend a dime on you if I didn't like you. I ask one more time to see you on Monday. I'm free. I want to talk and air out these things. This is the last time. If don't want to associate with me, cool. We move forward. The choice is yours. I don't play games. There's too many women willing to be my friend and eventually my girlfriend. I don't rush into things. I'm being bold and blunt. I am not going through a pity party cause of heartbreak. I deserve a good woman. If you ain't that person, then who are you?

So I got this opportunity to talk to her. She was on bedrest. She didn't want to hug me or even kiss me. I asked her why? She just told me she's not feeling well and I'll be in the hospital until March.

She said that she didn't "block" me on Facebook and I was just overracting.

Okay, cool I accept that. I asked if there's anything I can do. She told me that it will come in due time.

So few weeks pass and I asked how she doing! No response. So I call and leave countless messages.

No response.

So once again I decided to mingle. I went to the social networks to find a few women. I went on a few dates. These women were not attractive.  They were HUGE disasters. So I decided to not worry about it. I kept a relatively low profile and focused on working. 

Like all men and women scorned, I create a fake profile on Facebook to see if she was really telling the truth about Facebook. I noticed a medical band on her hand and thought nothing of it.

Well Jessica V. called this past few days. I asked her why was she avoiding me! She didn't come out with the truth. So I asked again, "You're not pregnant right!" 

Jessica V. paused and said, Yes! I gave birth to my son while I was at the hospital.

I was shocked and saddened! 

How could she lie to me?

She said that she couldn't have an abortion. She knew that we both didn't support it and it was going to be a devastating life change.  

She knew that if I found out, I would be devastated and end all ties with her.

She told me that her son died at birth. He was a stillborn. He was seven or eight months in. Just about the time I've associated with Jessica V. 

So I was upset. I was mad. But I was forgiving. However I lost all trust for her and I was ready to move on. 

I texted her.

I can forgive you... And I am serious, I really forgive you! However, I can never trust you. You lie.

Even if you do all you can to prove that you are trustworthy, it will be hard. I want to move forward.

You can't keep your word nor understand my plight.

I figured the reasons why I never show my feelings is because I felt like it's a weakness. I am not going to shed tears. I'm going to dust myself off and try again. I will find the right one.

I am a human being first, everything else last.

How I knew you were lying is the fact that I can't reach you through social media. Like I told you, you have blocked me because you didn't want me to find out.

Eight months down the drain.

I LOVE YOU.

You don't love me....

I'm ready to move forward!

She replies that she loves me. I rejected that I told her that I can forgive but I can't trust you. You don't love me because what type of person would lie about something as big as this?

So I asked one more time to see me. Scratch that. I told her that I want to see her now. I gave her an ultimatum. If she fails at this, we move forward. She said that she will come and see me. 

So that day came. Time passes by. She would call saying that she had to see her friends and she will make me a top priority after that. Soon after it was getting late. I called her. I asked what's taking so long. She told me that she's going through a coping phase. I said okay, go home. No, I am going to see you. I just want to clear my head first. 

Well I had enough. I had to let her have it. I told her that I've exhausted all I can. I told her that I want a GOOD woman. I want to raise a family. I want to be happy. 

I admit it's my fault. I do tend to be quite stubborn. But due to the fact that I've been hurt too many times, I have to be this way. I wasted my time chasing.

She responded by saying that she wants to be left alone.

So I left her no choice. I told her that I wish her well.

My condolences to you on losing your son. The pain of losing a child is more than anything I can imagine. I can heart with her. But based on broken promises and continued lies, I am done. I am moving one.

My feelings having change for you. You have. I am done with the lies, the deception and the broken promises. I am wasting my time.

I did everything right but ignored the obvious. Maybe now I will require standards when meeting women.

I'm sadden by this. She tells me that she's not like every other person. But yet, Jessica V. proven to be a user and a liar. I never sugar coat my feelings. I gave up a lot of females who I really had feelings for just to be in a committed relationship. A relationship with her.

She changed me. She changed me for the better. I promise you this. 

She doesn't want to talk to me and wants to be left alone. I respect that. But this will be the last time I contact with her. As of now, I have removed all contacts and I will move forward. 

I've been single most of my life. I can wait a little longer.

I guess what I am saying! I just thought that one day will come when I eventually will settle down.

But today, it's another challenge ahead. So I keep the faith and move on.....